Pfffffft! You have taken the Chinese propaganda hook line and sinker. Always look at what people do and not what they say.
In 1963-68, Chinese "worth" was FAR FAR FAR FAR FAR FAR less than $2000 per capita. Yet it was a nation with fastest A-Bomb to H-Bomb transition with a plane deliverable 3.3 megaton bomb ready. This ONE single act not only made China strategically secure but also brought it on strategic table which India will never be able to join. Remember, China became militarily secure first (defeating India, pushing US and Japanese militray pressure off in south China sea) and then it became more economically "worthy". EVEN since the days long gone when China was not as wealthy, NO ONE actually recognized Taiwan as a separate country. HECK Taiwan is not even in UN. China was not that rich in 50s or 60s. During its entire existance, China has been a domineering presence over Taiwan and not the other way round.. Even if China has always been per capita "less worthy". The only force keeping Taiwan in existance is US intervention, NOT its own "worth". And soon enough China will swallow Taiwan, even if Taiwan will be per capita "more worthy" than China.
Pakistan's "worth" is right now about 40% less than India per capita. Yet, tell me which nation has more successful strategically? A nation which cannot even take name of its adversory due to fear of retaliation? A nation which operates fighters from 1950s? A nation which takes 20 years to just BUY a fighter jet?
China did whatever they could on their own, without bothering others. We also did the same, we tested nukes, did not sign the NPT, CTBT etc.
As for Taiwan, the Chinese made a deal with the US to stand as a bulwark against the Soviet Union. We also signed a similar deal with the SU. I had touched upon the subject before. In exchange for become a pseudo-stooge to the US and SU, both China and India received a lot of political and military benefits. We received help in 1971 and 1984. And in China's case, the Americans earned their support by derecognising Taiwan and transferring quite a bit of military tech, and of course the obvious economic benefits. The US wouldn't have done this had they known the SU was headed towards oblivion. Our benefits are lower because we were on the losing side.
In both cases, both India and China only took care of their own interests without bothering others.
That's the magic word: "bothering". Both countries kept to their own. The Chinese did it for 40 years. And only since a decade they began actively bothering others, after they became a $5000 economy, ie, an upper middle income country where people are more or less rich enough to pay for basic services on their own. Before achieving that they made sure not to step on anyone's toes. Even all the main border problems with India began after China became a $10T economy. In fact, keeping to themselves was one of their guiding principles in diplomacy. We are following the same thing, ie not taking sides in the Middle East, sticking to only UN missions in Africa, only having political and economic relations with ASEAN (which is slowly extending towards the military because of QUAD, and America's support, so a bit before its time).
Look it up yourself, until they became an upper middle income country, they played no part anywhere outside their borders. Even during the Iran-Iraq war, they stayed away. And after the Gulf War, they retreated even more and completely shifted their focus towards their economy and military R&D, they even started cutting down their military to size.
Give it a decade, and you will start seeing India interfering in the workings of other countries, ie, after we become an upper middle income country. Money talks.
And you've got it the other way round. Even though India is much stronger than Pakistan, Pak is still a nuclear power with a large army. Otoh, even after threatening to take Taiwan away every other year since the 50s, China, a ridiculouly more powerful country compared to Taiwan, a member of the P5, a nuclear weapons power, a great military power, has never had the guts to take the tiny little island away by force. So your argument works the other way round.
Unless you can lock horns with the biggest bull in the ranch, it's best for you to just sit down, chew cud and bide your time. The Chinese did it successfully, and we plan on repeating the same. Can't do jackshit without money.