I guess I became arrogant for a sec. Well not fully. I mean everything else pales in comparison, this is a separate person you are talking about. I read somewhere (I think Poalo Coelho) that you can control your own actions but not someone else's. When you are married to someone, yu can only control your own action/thoughts but not someone else's. That is what I was hinting towards. Every other aspect is something you control through your efforts. But the girl decided her life with you, how it should be. That is what I meant. You are least in control when it comes to someone else's actions/thoughts.
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I guess I became arrogant for a sec. Well not fully. I mean everything else pales in comparison, this is a separate person you are talking about. I read somewhere (I think Poalo Coelho) that you can control your own actions but not someone else's. When you are married to someone, yu can only control your own action/thoughts but not someone else's. That is what I was hinting towards. Every other aspect is something you control through your efforts. But the girl decided her life with you, how it should be. That is what I meant. You are least in control when it comes to someone else's actions/thoughts.
I would like to help if I could. But I'm actually a learner, trying to learn. You can see me here trying to connect things from other experts help. But if you mean life experience from my own chart (if you mean the points you mentioned appear in mine), then I can describe my experiance. But are they in my chart??
I tried my level best to settle in my own city ..
Pushed out for various reasons but no direct fault of myn.
I am going to try in nearby town with all hopes, my last effort. Before I begin preparation to move out of country.
Yes u have sun & Mars in cancer, the 12 house.
My Mars Antar Dasha in Guru Maha Dasha was really bad.
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This is my chart.
If u see I got Mars in vargottama ie same debilitating position in D1 & D9 chart.
Making it super bad... But actually according to some it negates the debilitation.
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My sun is in both Cancer and Leo. I consider them both as vibrations. I'm affected by both. I feel/see both sides. In ambition I'm Leo. In Love I'm Cancer (70%) and Leo (30%). That is about the Sun.
Mars in Cancer:
I think mars means your mode of action. I guess a typical mars with male energy would mean you just head on straight to your goals. I move differently. I start with the opposition I think I might face when I move towards my goals, and then make plans to tackle all those oppositions one by one, and only then make my move. I am usually emotionally attached with all my goals. I can get lazy in between not because I'm lazy, but because I exert myself too much, and then there is a temporary burn out episode and need to take time off. I'm an initator and starts new things/ventures often. I work hard, and don't show off immediately. I'm faster than my competiton and takes very less resources too, very well planned, but I'll look slower compared to my competition because I'm not going to show all my cards (products) in the beginning itself, but rather wait for the right time or for the plan to play out in order, so you don't see all the products I made in the same time, and this might make you think that I made less products than you, but that's only because I'm hiding them as my backup plan, which I'll bring out eventually, whether I need them as backup or not (hidden strength).
In love I imagine me to be very romantic and likes being chased by the girl I like (I dont know if this is mars in cancer). I prefer for things to happen around me, rather than me make things happen - the important take away is that things should happen.
I'm vey protective of my goals. Mars in cancer gives you a very strong sixth sense about threats to your goals and allows you to be well prepared in advance, and work on your weak points. I'm a perfectionist in my goals. I can sometimes take more time than necessary because I'm not satisfied with the results and keep refining it.
I don't know what's love in cancer. i don't show off my cards too unless it becomes essential.
My thinking ambitions are like Leo only ( if that means thinking nationally)
Bit perfectionist but that's also my negative becuz unless I think I can prepare properly I won't try doing it.
I don't think about enemies or competitors,
For me it's a wasted effort. Better spent of positive things.
When you said rashi, did you mean moon sign of the girl?? Then that is cool. Because I mean Scorpio/Aries Sun only. Moon can be any crazy sign like you say.
I have some powerful competition. I just want to create some space for our own country in the area. I don't want to think abiut compettion, usually I compete with myself, like when I hit the gym, I compare with myself, but when in my case it is important to think of competition to win, because if I have to defeat/neutralize the competitiors, then I have no choice but to play it well prepared, because they are powerful.
I'll marry someone born in Aries/Scorpio Sun and Aquarius Moon like @vstol said. I guess that solves it!! Now I hope the Aries Sun sign Aquarius moon is not a cheat.
My personal opinion based on experience is, think of what s the most you would like in a spouse.
If you see that in a person, rest all you can adjust..
And God will bless with what's needed for our life.
Astrology is just one part.
How you personally like is the Most important factor in a marriage.
Keralam is different from Tamil Nadu. Here most girls (college going, educated) are total whores (i dont mean sluts although they exists, more like selfish people). No more character oriented women. SO what is the point of looking too deep into a person?? I just want goals/sexual/ambition attitude to be aligned. WOmen here are selfish. I don't know how things are in Tamil Nadu. Boys who are not players are looked at as fools here. I just survived because of good looks.
Honestly women dont want to cook anymore here. We bought a dish washer recently. Thats the direction things are going here.
I meant in broad terms like..
Wanting to live a happy life..
Responsible life..
Good duty bound managing life..
Totally dependant house wife..
Independent wife..
Loving wife..
Like that..
If u see things u want most, be ready to adjust for the rest.
I get turned off by the housewife concept. Probably why I like the Aries so much. I like an equal. Someone who fights alongside instead of someone I have to babysit.
My thoughts too
Okay. I got Venus in Leo. What should I do to correct karma?? As I see I get material blessings, but bound to create problems for marriage/girl. I dont want anything untoward to happen to her.
Also is my best match Scorpio or Aries?? I'm attracted to both. I dont have any girls info though. Havnt started seeing anyone.
Does Leo in Ascendant and Leo in Venus match Aries a good match for me?? I have a strong preference for them. I consider myself a Cancer-Leo cusp. More Leo because of profession, thoughts, etc. Also my chart is mostly air and fire signs. So I thought Aries maybe the one?? Will marriage with Aries work in my case?
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1. Send me your DOB, place of birth and time of birth
2. Question - how accurate is your Time of Birth? accurate to +/- how many minutes?
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