The durability of Su-57 stealth coatings has been tested so far in controlled conditions. You'd need at least a couple of squadrons worth of airframe to even establish a baseline.Stealth aircraft are RCS tested after maintenance. Plus panels are designed in such a way that they fit in seamlessly from the start. A pilot also visually inspects the aircraft before flying it, paying more attention to whatever was worked on by the ground crew
Russia doesn't have solid credentials in terms of maintenance let alone stealth maintenance. The IAFs operational tempo/sortie rate is likelt far hig
her in peacetime than RuAF's in wartime.
One reason why the IAF prefers buying Western ac (Rafale) at higher upfront cost than higher-lifecycle-cost Russian equivalents (Su-35S). Since MMRCA, the IAF has considered LCC in its cost calculations. Russian ac have been a disadvantage in IAF tenders since then.