well its a bit difficult to understand it unless you have learnt it in detail. The first house is the ascendent and the sign in it is associated with a particular planet. Also each house has a planet associated with it. so when we do the prediction we have to see the house, the rashi lord in that house and position of the actual lord of that house. After that comes the strength of the planets. their aspect with other planets and what is their relationship with pther planets. Finally we have to see which Nakshatra the planet is in.
So. The way I understand it from you is like this:
I have to check my ascendant (Leo in Venus in my case) first.
So my 1st house is Leo.
2nd house is Virgo,
3rd house is Libra,
so on.
So my 7th house is Aquarius (which is the person you told me to marry).
Now I found this woman in youtube who practises Vedic astrology (total believer) and has written 8 books on it, Jony Patry. She mentions to know more about the spouse, to use this method:
*Assume the 7th house as the first house of the spouse. Then read from there onwards as if it is the chart of the spouse. So the 8th house of the groom will become the 2nd house of the spouse. And so on.
So that would mean, if the woman I marry will be Aquarius ascendant.
Then her 1st house is Aquarius (she comes off as creative, aloof, freedom loving, respects others freedom),
2nd house Pisces (seems like she is bad in managing money),
3rd house Aries (means she is a quick thinker/communicator and says things without thinking, also needs so much communication),
4th house Taurus (means she is looking for a good home and comforts in the groom),
5th house Gemini (She is very dynamic in romance),
6th house Cancer (very caretaker like, housewife type at home and very attached to her work)
7th house Leo (attracted to confident dudes who also respects them back),
8th house Virgo (house of sex, death, etc. Aren't Virgos boring in sex?)
Is my analysis anything close to reality??