Sir it doesn't matter who started war first.problem is sequence of events.i agree that you are a democracy.yiu even know that pulwama was done wby aclicak kashmiri.i forget his name.how on Earth you can blame us for pulwama? You can see the events after pulwama specially balakot attack.now tell me on what evidence you decided to hit targets in Pakistan? On the basis of Jem videos? Jem made lots of other videos showing their hate for India.there are groups in Pakistan who take responsibility of attack on indian soil but problem is they don't provide any proof in videos.you know everything about struggle for Kashmir and you know this hate exists from a very long time.without any proof? How can someone attack another country and your media told about the weight of rdx.the weight was too much.itis like you have to blame pakistan everytime.i mean things are clear as crystal.
One doesn't know whether you are naive or pretending to be one. JeM / LeT & various other jihadi tanzeems in Pakistan openly solicit funds during the Friday Zuhr namaaz apart from volunteers for jihad in Kashmir. They seek the skin of sacrificed animals on Eid ul Azha citing similar reasons. All this has been documented not just by the Indian press or the international press and geostrategists apart from think tanks and academia but have been largely corroborated by the Pakistani press too. All these activities are apart from the anti India rhetoric which goes on at public meetings every other day. Much the same approach has been taken by these & other tanzeems w.r.t Afghanistan too.
In fact it's an open truth that ex Pakistani servicemen and serving personnel were in the forefront of the Taliban's war against the Northern Alliance when the Taliban seized power in Afghanistan in the late 90's. When the US invaded Afghanistan post 9/11 after threatening Musharraf with dire consequences if PAKISTAN didn't co operate with the US, they looked the other way when the Taliban were fleeing to FATA. This was in fact a whole lot of PA servicemen - ex & serving, who made their way to Pakistan along with the Taliban and Bin Laden in the battle of Tora Bora.
Now, coming to Pulwama, there a few things which become apparent confirming that there are Pakistan's finger prints all over the incident. To begin with RDX is not an explosive available off the shelf. It has to be provided by nation states who normally monopolize production or it has to be stolen / pilfered. The latter wasn't reported in India ever and just before you raise questions over our armed forces and our press, pls understand that we are a fully functional thriving democracy with a free press and an armed forces which is accountable to the people of this nation thru it's representatives namely legislative bodies. These issues can never be concealed because unlike you we aren't a police state.
Next comes the issue of training involved in handling such explosives. It's equally impossible that this training was imparted in India by an Indian National. This training was either imparted to the suicide bomber in Pakistan or a JeM trainer came down here to do so. There's a whole track record of these tanzeems particularly the JeM & the LeT as far as assisting and enabling suicide bombing goes. The last such incident in India was a JeM attack on the J&K legislature in 2001 which claimed around 40 casualties then. That case was well investigated and documented.
Apart from this, there are the suicide bombings in Afghanistan executed by the Taliban with LeT / JeM cadres right through the insurgency for the past two decades. How does the world know these were executed by Pakistanis. You have to thank NADRA & Hussain Haqqani. This entire database is available to the US and consequently to the rest of the world. Rest assured, wherever there's a blast and Pakistani involvement is suspected, the truth will come out with evidence.
Further, the JeM chief was himself released on Afghan soil along with two other terrorists, while they were incarcerated here for terrorism, during the Taliban reign, in exchange for the life of 200+ Indian passengers on a hijacked Indian plane forced to land in Kabul.
The JeM or LeT have never shied from claiming such attacks before. The only miscalculation they and deep state Pakistan committed was to think this would be business as usual. Hence they made the claim and regretted it soon after.
Finally, to conclude, these kind of attacks sponsored by Pakistan and executed by locals or Pakistani citizens in India has a documented history going back to the issue of terrorism in Punjab in the early 80's continuing with Kashmir since the late 80's and most prominently witnessed and investigated by Indian & US investigation agencies during the 1993 Mumbai bomb blasts followed by many other such incidents - major & minor culminating in the Incidents of 26/11.