My bad, I didn't even see this reply of yours. The air of narcissistic arrogance you have is really something that amuses me. Your comment suggests that somehow only you understand how this world works and people like me have no right to question the armed forces and the government on their failures.
Then explain to me-
You are supportive of the view that it wouldn't have been feasible to go to war after the death of those 40 souls. There was nothing to be gained and would have been a war of attrition. Lets accept that for a moment. Then, explain that 'qatl ki raat' quote you keep talking about. Why is it that we were ready for a war when abhinandan was captured? Did war become feasible overnight? This was the exact line-
So a night before there was nothing of value to be gained, and overnight, after capture of a pilot, war became feasible? Suddenly, the tactical perspective changed, the strategic perspective changed, and achievable goals suddenly started to appear out of thin air.
Let's be real, if war was not feasible after death of 40 soldiers, it suddenly won't become feasible after capture of 1 more human.
The reverse of this is, if war was feasible after capture of abhi, then it was feasible before that too. The entire system just didn't have the balls to go ahead. The reason I believe was public pressure wasn't enough and if thats not true, that just means one twisted thing - life of abhi was more important than of those 40 soldiers.
And thats my whole point. We just showed to the whole world that we are happy with some small airstrike after death of 40 soldiers. We reduced the worth of Indian lives ourselves. And the signalling after that was even more confusing. If we were willing to go to war for the 41st life that would have been wasted in this non-sense, it was more due to public optics rather than any human compassion for Indian lives.
Nobody is forcing you to fight a war to avenge the deaths of your fellow countrymen, ghar par baitho, chudiyan pehen kar, aur video games khelo. Be very clear on that. I am ...
Edit- The policies of the government are not written in stone, the way you talked, seems like you are the one making policies for India. Modi, Doval, Shah, RAW/IB chiefs ne tumhe theka nahin diya. So, talking in absolutes is just idiotic. Had there been more public pressure, we would have gone to war. Just goes to show that we as nation have little appetite for war.