I think we are failing to understand Modi-Doval strategy. All of their major actions - Surgical Strike, Air Strike, Tarbela (if it happened), and the list Baba mentions, all are intended to destroy the "tools" the deep state of Pakistan uses against India. This is the current level of escalation.
The duo respects every human life, on this side as well as on the other side of the border, even the deep state actors. In their design of strategy, they do have a justification to escalate to the next level where the loss of human lives on Indian side will justify the results the act will achieve. So, relax SF Warriors!