Disregarding what you've posted about the calibre of our senior echelons in our armed forces, what does this say about the calibre of our SF's? How does one explain a 1:1 kill ratio between highy trained & well equipped SF's & highly motivated & modestly armed insurgents? Is it a training issue or lack of material resources or something else ? Besides, this isn't the first of it's kind instance too? There have been plenty of such cases earlier too though the details escape me where the attrition faced by SF's in such encounters were unacceptably & embarrassingly high.
I'd advise everyone to not read too much into this once instance. It's sadly the law of averages playing itself out. When you send out guys with equal firepower to that of the enemy day in and day out, and thus perpetuate a battle of equals, one of the days the enemy is going to get lucky.
If you see the video of the US Medal of honor recipient, late John A Chapman's team engagement, you'll find that even US SFs when faced with equally or better armed enemies tend to suffer quite high casualties. This is universal this is why you never fight the enemy on an equal ground. Do whatever must.you need to do to ensure there is never an equal battle. That's what US strives for every single enagagement. Overwhelming response, never proportionate response.
The very fact that despite years of fighting the enemy on roughly equal terms the kids ratios are 4:1 in our favour speaks to the capabilities of our SFs. But you cannot expect to under equip them, under support them, and then expect miracles from them Everytime. Law of averages will move everything towards the mean in time.